Tantra does not respond to chasing; it rewards the opposite approach. To gain access to extraodinary experiences, you are invited to become the kind of person that the experience wants to come to. Someone whose body is receptive, whose heart is open, whose mind is quiet, whose intent is pure and whose relationship is safe and real. The experiences then become a consequence rather than a goal.

There are pleasures that briefly gratify, and there are pleasures that elevate your entire being. That is what tantra offers: a glimpse of the sacred. It is not about reaching orgasm, but about dissolving the one who seeks it. When striving falls away, you gain access to intense aliveness, merging with something higher, orgasmic bliss and seeing The Other as a doorway into the Grand Mystery.