Preparation is important.
Preparation for a tantric energy healing massage is essential
because it gently primes the body and mind to receive and integrate powerful energetic shifts.
Without proper grounding, the sudden release of blocked energy or deep-seated impurities
can overwhelm your system, leading to emotional turbulence, energetic imbalance
and a flood of physical symptoms like nausea, headaches and exhaustion.
Please note!
In the first few sessions, it’s common to experience emotional turbulence or physical discomfort (after the session)
—such as some fatigue, nausea, or a headache—
as years of emotional backlog and bodily impurities begin to surface and release.
This initial intensity is part of the process, as dense layers are gently scraped away to reawaken and sensitize the body
— unless one has already achieved a state of deep emotional clarity and physical purity.
That’s why thorough preparation is absolutely essential—not only to support the healing but to prevent the experience from becoming too overwhelming, destabilizing, or even harmful to the system.
How to best prepare
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The best results are reserved for the cleanest bodies. If you consume a healthy and light diet, exercise regularly, and abstain from alcohol/coffee/cigarettes/meds this massage can take you to great heights.
If you ‘sin’ regularly then note that the first sessions of the massage can have a detoxing effect instead of a pleasurable one.
Preparing the body for tantra massage:
❤️ No cigarettes 2 days prior
❤️ No alcohol 2 days prior
❤️ No coffee on the same day
❤️ Adopt a clean diet free of processed foods to detoxify your body in preparation for the massage
❤️ Please bathe before the session to promote physical cleanliness
❤️ Please shave the yoni to increase sensitivity in that area and to prevent the oil from forming knots that tangle and pull.Important:
If you are a heavy smoker or drinker and/or you use drugs, this type of massage is not (yet) for you.If you use medications, please consult your physician prior.
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The best results are reserved for the purest minds. If you are negative, close-minded and/or full of mental-emotional impurities, this massage might not be for you.
If you want to use the massage to relieve some of these impurities, please know that there can be an ‘emotional’ detox effect during the session or the next day in which you might feel a bit off.Preparing the mind for tantra massage:
❤️ For maximum results live in relative peace the days prior to the massage: excessive use of mobile, tv or other electronic devices will ‘pollute’ the mind and make it harder to relax, surrender and let go.Important:
While Tantra Healing Energy Massage can be deeply healing, it is not suitable for everyone, especially those with certain mental health conditions where strong emotional or energetic shifts can be destabilizing.
For example: severe PTSD, severe depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, dissociative disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder.Please always consult your physician prior.
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This Tantra Energy Healing Massage uses sexual energy to awaken the body. It is a sensual massage, but not an erotic service.
The goal is an awakening of the whole body. This might happen in the form of a whole body energy awakening.
The degree to which you can experience an energy orgasm depends on your receptivity, physical purity, level of comfort and safety and ability to let go and relax.
The tantric principles of no clitoral orgasm are stricly observed.Important
❤️Allow yourself to receive rather than do. Trust Fay, the process, and your body’s wisdom.
❤️ Clarify your intention: Ask yourself: Why am I going to do this? What do I seek? (healing, connection, self-discovery, awakening?) Set a clear, sincere inner intention without clinging to it.
❤️ Come with no expectations: Release any fixed ideas about what the experience should be like (healing, sexual, blissful, intense) Come with openness rather than trying to control the outcome.
❤️ Emotional readiness: Be willing to face and feel uncomfortable emotions—grief, fear, shame, longing. Understand that suppressed emotions may surface for release, and that’s part of the healing.
❤️ Be strong enough to assert boundaries: While I will check -in with you during the massage and ask your consent multiple times, please ensure you also have the strength of character to be aware of your limits and be ready to communicate them clearly.
Aftercare
Tantric energy continues to move through your body long after the session ends. To honor and integrate the work done, give yourself space to rest, reflect, and absorb the healing.
❤️ Avoid alcohol, cigarettes, and caffeine for at least 24-48 hours;
❤️ Refrain from sexual activity to allow energy to settle and deepen;
❤️ Stay hydrated; drink plenty of clean water or herbal tea;
❤️ Eat light, nourishing foods to support the cleansing process;
❤️ Take time alone to journal, meditate, or simply rest;
❤️ Allow emotions or sensations to rise without judgment - this is part of the release;
❤️ Spend time in nature or in silence if possible.
Important:
You may feel sensitive, emotional, or unusually energized after the session. This is natural. Trust your body’s wisdom and be gentle with yourself. If intense feelings arise, sit with them or reach out for support if needed. The more you honor the afterglow, the deeper the transformation.